What did I do is a journey from do I know what I did to do I want to know what I did. What did I do? Is this a rhetorical question or a question of introspection? We usually tend to examine the situation and others when this question is raised in our mind. Its … Continue reading What Did I Do?
The detachment in your protection and the truth in your emotions gives you and your kid the space to build their reality and enusre acceptance for what you see. Always speak the truth, never lie to anyone, accept reality, don’t live in fantasy, these are few statements we all have heard from our parents and … Continue reading Nothing Will Happen to Me
The belief that someone is happy being with you even when you dont see it is what drives being happily marired. Marriage is often called as an institution, and wedding is a family affair. In both conditions this relationship is never confined to two people only. Then how is the decision of compatibility between two … Continue reading …and then we got married.
One of the most treasured and valued possession in every individual is their EGO. My title might not trigger any connection to what the content is. But have you closely observed the plant of Touch-me-not? Every individual is like this plant. We all have those sharp thorns in our personality which is hidden behind a … Continue reading Touch-Me-Not
Always remain that one person who never judges you for what you are. The person who pulls you up even when you think you have let them down. What is one of the strongest emotions we instill in ourselves? “Disappointment”. We live our life with a constant fear of letting someone down starting from parents, … Continue reading Don’t Let Me Down
Do we teach our kids to live with grace and gratitude or do we teach our kids to wonder around the thoughts of others? Decision Making – What is it? Is it a skill, art, personality trait, capacity, ability, strength, power or all the above? What is needed to take a decision in any situation? … Continue reading What Will They Think
Relationship cherishes when you can stand by even when you dont understand and still make an effort to support the thought. I understand you because I love you; I understand you because I know you; But do I understand you when I listen to you? Most of the time we listen to respond rather than … Continue reading You Don’t Understand
Did I Grow Up or is there still more to it?! Don’t fight like kids. Stop acting like a child. You are grown up now; behave like one. Kids are so cute and innocent. When will I grow up? Why did I even grow up? We are always puzzled between these thoughts and always try … Continue reading Grow Up!
We try to "fit in" to be visible but we can smile only when we adjust in that space while being who we are. Have you tried solving a jigsaw puzzle? First step in solving this is to identify those corner pieces of the puzzle. The shape speaks for itself, and we know that these … Continue reading Jigsaw Puzzle
Individuality is unique and that is what makes every life special. Many a times we think, plan, and prepare to face certain challenging situations. We are in constant dialogue with ourselves and in our mind, we always win. Sometimes we discuss few scenarios with our friends or family and get suggestions, instructions, opinions and even … Continue reading I am Not You; You Are Not Me
When my perception meets your perspective, my happiness and your happiness becomes our happiness. What makes you happy? What makes others happy? What is the possibility of the answer for these two questions being the same? Happiness is like the soothing melody of birds chirping. We all hear it and feel it differently. It is … Continue reading I Want You to be Happy
Patience to Listen and Courage to Speak is the foundation of every relationship Listen to me! This is always told with an unpleasant tone. Whereas this phrase should be the core of our communication. When I first visited my daughter’s school, I observed a chart in every classroom which displayed the various voice levels which … Continue reading Are You Listening?
Imprisoned love can imprison your happiness. Set your love free to let your love set foot in your life. “I Love you”, one of the simplest forms of expression of love but when you mean it, it speaks volumes. Love is one such emotion which is as unique as every individual personality is. When you … Continue reading Prisoner Of Love
Walk the path of life with concern in all your relationships leading to a life of gratitude which gives you the pleasure of detachment in attachment. “I am worried” has become the most common emotion we all express these days with or without hesitation. People are more comfortable to say, “I am worried" and reluctant … Continue reading Don’t Worry About Me
A Perfect Match is someone who unearths the Diamond within you to brighten your life and your relationship. Do you know what is a “matching center”? It is a small shop which has multiple shades of each color stacked with varieties of materials. It used to be one stop shop for buying blouse pieces for … Continue reading A Perfect Match
Love Comforts the Uncomfortable. What is the role of fear in your life? Can fear make you do the right thing, or can it do things right? My answer to both these questions will be “No”, but I know a wide set of people who believe you should have fear of someone or something so … Continue reading Fear Tales
My life is mine only when I have everyone. My rules are mine only when it excludes everyone. Love Rules Life. We all believe our life is ours, but we forget to come to terms when someone else says this out loud. In our journey of life everyone has had this feeling: “My Life-My Rules” … Continue reading My Life – My Rules
Actions speak louder than words. Touch Speaks louder than actions.When a parent says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of protection. When a partner says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of belonging. When an elderly person says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of safety. Every phase of life defines a … Continue reading Hold My Hand
At a certain age we all tend to get reading glasses which helps us see things clearly which is closer to us. Sometimes we fail to realize that what we are seeing is not how it looks like until we don’t wear the glasses to see the difference. We might know that we need glasses, … Continue reading Reading Glasses
Affection leads you into a life filled with love and Attention guards you to love that life created by Affection. Pay Attention! reminds me of school. Every time when the class started teachers told us to pay attention so we could understand what was taught. But we paid attention only to concepts which ensured marks … Continue reading Attention to Affection
Perception Changes Perspective 