What did I do is a journey from do I know what I did to do I want to know what I did. What did I do? Is this a rhetorical question or a question of introspection? We usually tend to examine the situation and others when this question is raised in our mind. Its … Continue reading What Did I Do?
Who defines what is easy? What is the meaning of an easy life? Is there anything that can be called as an easy life in reality? Even fairy tales become easy only if there is an angel or a Godmother or a Prince Charming. Then how can we have an easy life? We are always … Continue reading I Want an Easy Life
The detachment in your protection and the truth in your emotions gives you and your kid the space to build their reality and enusre acceptance for what you see. Always speak the truth, never lie to anyone, accept reality, don’t live in fantasy, these are few statements we all have heard from our parents and … Continue reading Nothing Will Happen to Me
The belief that someone is happy being with you even when you dont see it is what drives being happily marired. Marriage is often called as an institution, and wedding is a family affair. In both conditions this relationship is never confined to two people only. Then how is the decision of compatibility between two … Continue reading …and then we got married.
One of the most treasured and valued possession in every individual is their EGO. My title might not trigger any connection to what the content is. But have you closely observed the plant of Touch-me-not? Every individual is like this plant. We all have those sharp thorns in our personality which is hidden behind a … Continue reading Touch-Me-Not
Always remain that one person who never judges you for what you are. The person who pulls you up even when you think you have let them down. What is one of the strongest emotions we instill in ourselves? “Disappointment”. We live our life with a constant fear of letting someone down starting from parents, … Continue reading Don’t Let Me Down
We nurture, we care, we cherish and we lead. We show them what to do and how to do it. Who is your role model? Being ambitious, becoming successful, choosing a role model plays a key role in shaping our life. What is the right way of doing this? Reading biographies, watching documentaries, listening to … Continue reading Don’t Become Like Me
Do we teach our kids to live with grace and gratitude or do we teach our kids to wonder around the thoughts of others? Decision Making – What is it? Is it a skill, art, personality trait, capacity, ability, strength, power or all the above? What is needed to take a decision in any situation? … Continue reading What Will They Think
Relationship cherishes when you can stand by even when you dont understand and still make an effort to support the thought. I understand you because I love you; I understand you because I know you; But do I understand you when I listen to you? Most of the time we listen to respond rather than … Continue reading You Don’t Understand
We try to "fit in" to be visible but we can smile only when we adjust in that space while being who we are. Have you tried solving a jigsaw puzzle? First step in solving this is to identify those corner pieces of the puzzle. The shape speaks for itself, and we know that these … Continue reading Jigsaw Puzzle
Individuality is unique and that is what makes every life special. Many a times we think, plan, and prepare to face certain challenging situations. We are in constant dialogue with ourselves and in our mind, we always win. Sometimes we discuss few scenarios with our friends or family and get suggestions, instructions, opinions and even … Continue reading I am Not You; You Are Not Me
When my perception meets your perspective, my happiness and your happiness becomes our happiness. What makes you happy? What makes others happy? What is the possibility of the answer for these two questions being the same? Happiness is like the soothing melody of birds chirping. We all hear it and feel it differently. It is … Continue reading I Want You to be Happy
Patience to Listen and Courage to Speak is the foundation of every relationship Listen to me! This is always told with an unpleasant tone. Whereas this phrase should be the core of our communication. When I first visited my daughter’s school, I observed a chart in every classroom which displayed the various voice levels which … Continue reading Are You Listening?
Imprisoned love can imprison your happiness. Set your love free to let your love set foot in your life. “I Love you”, one of the simplest forms of expression of love but when you mean it, it speaks volumes. Love is one such emotion which is as unique as every individual personality is. When you … Continue reading Prisoner Of Love
Responsibility has a journey of its own. It starts from "You are my responsibility" and should always land into "I am Responsible". When did you learn the meaning of Responsibility? It might be difficult to recollect the timeframe but the real question here is did we learn it right? When I was in school, we … Continue reading YOU are MY Responsibility
Walk the path of life with concern in all your relationships leading to a life of gratitude which gives you the pleasure of detachment in attachment. “I am worried” has become the most common emotion we all express these days with or without hesitation. People are more comfortable to say, “I am worried" and reluctant … Continue reading Don’t Worry About Me
A Perfect Match is someone who unearths the Diamond within you to brighten your life and your relationship. Do you know what is a “matching center”? It is a small shop which has multiple shades of each color stacked with varieties of materials. It used to be one stop shop for buying blouse pieces for … Continue reading A Perfect Match
My life is mine only when I have everyone. My rules are mine only when it excludes everyone. Love Rules Life. We all believe our life is ours, but we forget to come to terms when someone else says this out loud. In our journey of life everyone has had this feeling: “My Life-My Rules” … Continue reading My Life – My Rules
Actions speak louder than words. Touch Speaks louder than actions.When a parent says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of protection. When a partner says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of belonging. When an elderly person says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of safety. Every phase of life defines a … Continue reading Hold My Hand
Close your eyes and count till 10. Ready or not, here I come….We all grew up playing different versions of this game. The joy of not being caught, the joy of seeing someone else being caught, the joy of finding a secret place to hide, the eagerness to see if the denner is coming to … Continue reading Hide & Seek
At a certain age we all tend to get reading glasses which helps us see things clearly which is closer to us. Sometimes we fail to realize that what we are seeing is not how it looks like until we don’t wear the glasses to see the difference. We might know that we need glasses, … Continue reading Reading Glasses
Secrets are not spoken, not heard or not seen. Secrets are the barricades of relationships. Choose to communicate and not to hide so you can be heard and seen and not blocked by your own barricades. Google says secret is something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or unseen by others. We … Continue reading It’s a Secret
Are you waiting for time to heal and preparing yourself to allow the therapy reach you? Be prepared to be healed with therapy reaching you in time. We always hear people saying, “Time will heal everything”. Time has a superpower because it never stops. When we drive during heavy rains, there are times when we … Continue reading Time Therapy
Can your disagreement be as gentle as a child's innocence who also has an opportunity to make the same noise but chose to stand by her little sister in peace? I agree to what you say – this statement brings a lot of joy to the person listening to it. Whereas when that agreement changes … Continue reading Agree to Disagree
One of the most strongest traits of every human being is their defence mechanism. This develops and grows with us just like how our body develops and grows over the years. A skill which needs no teacher, a quality which needs no special introduction. This is always with us as our faithful life partner. How … Continue reading I Told You So.
Perception Changes Perspective 