What did I do is a journey from do I know what I did to do I want to know what I did. What did I do? Is this a rhetorical question or a question of introspection? We usually tend to examine the situation and others when this question is raised in our mind. Its … Continue reading What Did I Do?
The belief that someone is happy being with you even when you dont see it is what drives being happily marired. Marriage is often called as an institution, and wedding is a family affair. In both conditions this relationship is never confined to two people only. Then how is the decision of compatibility between two … Continue reading …and then we got married.
One of the most treasured and valued possession in every individual is their EGO. My title might not trigger any connection to what the content is. But have you closely observed the plant of Touch-me-not? Every individual is like this plant. We all have those sharp thorns in our personality which is hidden behind a … Continue reading Touch-Me-Not
Relationship cherishes when you can stand by even when you dont understand and still make an effort to support the thought. I understand you because I love you; I understand you because I know you; But do I understand you when I listen to you? Most of the time we listen to respond rather than … Continue reading You Don’t Understand
We try to "fit in" to be visible but we can smile only when we adjust in that space while being who we are. Have you tried solving a jigsaw puzzle? First step in solving this is to identify those corner pieces of the puzzle. The shape speaks for itself, and we know that these … Continue reading Jigsaw Puzzle
When my perception meets your perspective, my happiness and your happiness becomes our happiness. What makes you happy? What makes others happy? What is the possibility of the answer for these two questions being the same? Happiness is like the soothing melody of birds chirping. We all hear it and feel it differently. It is … Continue reading I Want You to be Happy
Patience to Listen and Courage to Speak is the foundation of every relationship Listen to me! This is always told with an unpleasant tone. Whereas this phrase should be the core of our communication. When I first visited my daughter’s school, I observed a chart in every classroom which displayed the various voice levels which … Continue reading Are You Listening?
Imprisoned love can imprison your happiness. Set your love free to let your love set foot in your life. “I Love you”, one of the simplest forms of expression of love but when you mean it, it speaks volumes. Love is one such emotion which is as unique as every individual personality is. When you … Continue reading Prisoner Of Love
Responsibility has a journey of its own. It starts from "You are my responsibility" and should always land into "I am Responsible". When did you learn the meaning of Responsibility? It might be difficult to recollect the timeframe but the real question here is did we learn it right? When I was in school, we … Continue reading YOU are MY Responsibility
A Perfect Match is someone who unearths the Diamond within you to brighten your life and your relationship. Do you know what is a “matching center”? It is a small shop which has multiple shades of each color stacked with varieties of materials. It used to be one stop shop for buying blouse pieces for … Continue reading A Perfect Match
Actions speak louder than words. Touch Speaks louder than actions.When a parent says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of protection. When a partner says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of belonging. When an elderly person says: “hold my hand”, there is a sense of safety. Every phase of life defines a … Continue reading Hold My Hand
Secrets are not spoken, not heard or not seen. Secrets are the barricades of relationships. Choose to communicate and not to hide so you can be heard and seen and not blocked by your own barricades. Google says secret is something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or unseen by others. We … Continue reading It’s a Secret
Affection leads you into a life filled with love and Attention guards you to love that life created by Affection. Pay Attention! reminds me of school. Every time when the class started teachers told us to pay attention so we could understand what was taught. But we paid attention only to concepts which ensured marks … Continue reading Attention to Affection
Evolution in time changed a lot of things. One among that was human relationship. As time changed, the relationship of husband and wife has come to a stage where we call each other as partners. Another concept which has evolved with time is space and individuality. Our older generation had clear boundaries on what a … Continue reading Parallel Partner
I once told my friend you will know how you will be as a husband only once you become one. His immediate response was, “No, I know how I will be”. I left him with his thoughts because it was his belief and my understanding about relationships were contradicting. Relationships are a two-way road. You … Continue reading Relate to Your Relationships
Perception Changes Perspective 